Growing up, I was one of those kids who could barely wait for the
teacher to finish her question before I had an answer. Asking my own questions, however, was tougher. I thought asking too many questions was a sign that I didn’t understand something immediately. I saw asking questions as an expression of inadequacy.

I was, of course, wrong. With time and experience, I’ve learned that asking the right questions at the right times is actually an
expression of confidence, control and comprehension.

When Sonia Sotomayor was up for nomination to the Supreme Court, personal profiles always noted Sotomayor’s once-concern that she was not “smart enough.” It’s a concern many of us can relate to – even after we’ve graduated from well regarded colleges and scored professional victory after professional victory. And there is always the fear that someone else will think “she’s not smart enough,” tag us as not belonging and our own insecurities will become self-fulfilling prophecies.